I think there used to be a commercial -- for a watch, I assume -- that said, "Give the gift of time." That's what I want. I want someone to give me the gift of time.
June, July and August have been a bit bizarre -- a good kind of bizarre, because I got my house cleaned from top to bottom and a wonderful visit with my son and daughter-in-law -- but still, bizarre time-wise. I babysat 5 days a week for 3 weeks running in late June and July, then spent 10 days Spring Cleaning my house (more for me than for my guests, since I know they were coming to see us, not how clean our house is!), then more babysitting, some scheduled visits with friends, a weekend away, and now a bit extra babysitting while daughter Mary is recovering from having 4 wisdom teeth pulled.
I don't know how women who work fulltime get everything done. Oh, I know I did it when I had to - worked from 6:30 am to 3:30 pm, took care of my kids, kept my house clean, got the shopping done and even had time to be a Brownie Leader and volunteer at the kids' school! I remember getting up at 4:30 every morning so I could get laundry in the washer before I left for work at 6am, packing lunches at night so I didn't have to do it in the morning, cleaning house on weekends. I know it can be done, but I did my time. That phase of my life is over and it's time to move on to bigger and better things!
For me, "alone time" is a must-have. I treasure those days when I have nothing scheduled, a clean house, and no one asking me or expecting me to do a darn thing. Those are the days I spending quilting or sewing, or reading, or heck, I've spent entire days in front of the computer reading blogs or just playing games! And I love my "alone time".
Aside from one or two days in the past six weeks, I haven't had much alone time -- and I'm craving it! I've got some new fabric in to start my Christmas projects, I've got unfinished projects I want to get done, I have audio books that are calling my name, and other books that want to nestle in my lap while I sit outside on the deck with a glass of iced tea. Hmmmmm....heaven.
I wouldn't change any of my days in the past six weeks. I enjoyed every minute with my grandson, and most certainly loved every minute of visiting with my son and his wife. I don't regret spending almost two weeks Spring Cleaning my house, and I'm glad I could be there today for my daughter so she can rest and recoup from her oral surgery. No regrets.... just a bit of wistfulness.
Jeff is going away on business the last week of this month, and I am declaring to the world that I am going on vacation -- right here, in my house, with no plans, no babysitting, no cooking, no cleaning and minimal blogging and computer time. I'm going to get up when I feel like it, go to bed when I feel like it, eat when I feel like it, go out when I feel like it, nap when I feel like it, answer the phone when I feel like it -- ahhh...doesn't that sound like heaven?
I think all women need "alone time". Probably men too, but women definitely. We spend so much of our time taking care of others, helping others, doing for others, that time for ourselves is always on the back burner. Whether it's 15 minutes a day, or an entire week like I'm going to have -- it restores your soul and reminds you that there's more to life than caring for others and cleaning house and working.
Do you get any time for yourself? And if YOU had a week alone, how would you spend it?
Aug 11, 2008
I'd like the gift of time
I think there used to be a commercial -- for a watch, I assume -- that said, "Give the gift of time." That's what I want. I want someone to give me the gift of time.
June, July and August have been a bit bizarre -- a good kind of bizarre, because I got my house cleaned from top to bottom and a wonderful visit with my son and daughter-in-law -- but still, bizarre time-wise. I babysat 5 days a week for 3 weeks running in late June and July, then spent 10 days Spring Cleaning my house (more for me than for my guests, since I know they were coming to see us, not how clean our house is!), then more babysitting, some scheduled visits with friends, a weekend away, and now a bit extra babysitting while daughter Mary is recovering from having 4 wisdom teeth pulled.
I don't know how women who work fulltime get everything done. Oh, I know I did it when I had to - worked from 6:30 am to 3:30 pm, took care of my kids, kept my house clean, got the shopping done and even had time to be a Brownie Leader and volunteer at the kids' school! I remember getting up at 4:30 every morning so I could get laundry in the washer before I left for work at 6am, packing lunches at night so I didn't have to do it in the morning, cleaning house on weekends. I know it can be done, but I did my time. That phase of my life is over and it's time to move on to bigger and better things!
For me, "alone time" is a must-have. I treasure those days when I have nothing scheduled, a clean house, and no one asking me or expecting me to do a darn thing. Those are the days I spending quilting or sewing, or reading, or heck, I've spent entire days in front of the computer reading blogs or just playing games! And I love my "alone time".
Aside from one or two days in the past six weeks, I haven't had much alone time -- and I'm craving it! I've got some new fabric in to start my Christmas projects, I've got unfinished projects I want to get done, I have audio books that are calling my name, and other books that want to nestle in my lap while I sit outside on the deck with a glass of iced tea. Hmmmmm....heaven.
I wouldn't change any of my days in the past six weeks. I enjoyed every minute with my grandson, and most certainly loved every minute of visiting with my son and his wife. I don't regret spending almost two weeks Spring Cleaning my house, and I'm glad I could be there today for my daughter so she can rest and recoup from her oral surgery. No regrets.... just a bit of wistfulness.
Jeff is going away on business the last week of this month, and I am declaring to the world that I am going on vacation -- right here, in my house, with no plans, no babysitting, no cooking, no cleaning and minimal blogging and computer time. I'm going to get up when I feel like it, go to bed when I feel like it, eat when I feel like it, go out when I feel like it, nap when I feel like it, answer the phone when I feel like it -- ahhh...doesn't that sound like heaven?
I think all women need "alone time". Probably men too, but women definitely. We spend so much of our time taking care of others, helping others, doing for others, that time for ourselves is always on the back burner. Whether it's 15 minutes a day, or an entire week like I'm going to have -- it restores your soul and reminds you that there's more to life than caring for others and cleaning house and working.
Do you get any time for yourself? And if YOU had a week alone, how would you spend it?
Aug 10, 2008
DeClutter Challenge Days 9 and 10
I didn't get a chance to declutter yesterday, as we were gone from early morning to late night (see post below), so made up my day today.
This morning I decluttered my spices -- got rid of those that are old or that I never use. Oh, and for some weird reason a broken Halloween decoration was tucked in the back of my spice cabinet! So out that went as well!
I also decluttered the top of the bookcase in my office. Besides dust, there wasn't much up there, except this CD box that my husband bought at a yard sale at least two years ago, and which has sat on top of the bookshelf since it first came into the house! Out, out, I say!
What I brought home from the World's Longest Yard Sale
My husband and I have been going to yard sales, auctions and estate sales for years and years. I'm guessing that close to 50% of what you see in my house has been acquired at such sales, especially decorative items. Yard sales are where I buy toys and clothes for my grandson. All great ways to save money on perfectly good "gently used" items at pennies on the dollar of original cost.
On the other hand, I have a basement storage area packed with boxes of items that I bought at yard sales, auctions and estate sales -- buying them for "the deal" and not necessarily because they were items I truly loved or needed. Yard sales definitely contribute to the "clutter factor" around here.
I approached our two-day trip along the Route 127 World's Longest Yard Sale with a new mindset. I went with a list! My list was 1) a vintage step stool for my quilt room, 2) a service for 6-8 of everyday dishes for the kitchen, 3)an antique bedroom suite for the master bedroom, 4) a treadle sewing machine and 5)anything quilt-related, not including fabric. I brought $100 cash with me and did not want to spend more than that unless I found a bedroom suite.
We literally stopped at 200+ yard sales yesterday. I have to say, I was disappointed in the quality of the items we saw with a few exceptions. One man's junk is another man's junk in most of the sales we visited. So much of what we looked at was dirty, torn and broken!
I did, however, have a few "finds": Two new iron-on transfer books (I do hand embroidery) and a pair of new dress shoes for Brayden. Total spent: $5.00.
What else did I bring home? An eye infection! Despite using the anti-bacterial dry hand wash every time we got back in the car, somewhere along the line my hands came in contact with something they shouldn't have, then touched my eye. I'm prone to eye infections and luckily have medicine on hand.
I did love travelling the side roads of Kentucky -- I'd forgotten what a truly beautiful state it is and I loved many of the small towns we drove through. The people were exceptionally friendly and for the most part, drivers were patient and considerate in backed-up traffic.
We decided not to spend a third day at the sale, so we're home today with me catching up on laundry, ironing and Olympics-watching. I think while watching the Olympics I'll choose one of my new iron-on transfer patterns and work on embroidering some new pillowcases for the guest room.
In the past, Jeff and I would have come home with the car loaded to the roof (and quite possibly some items actually ON the roof!), our bank accounts empty, and the family room full of boxes we needed to go through and sort. Instead, we enjoyed our trip together, came home with a few useful items, and I'm making a trip back to the bank to deposit the funds we didn't spend!
Frugal yard-sale'ing -- who knew?!?
Aug 8, 2008
Declutter Challenge Day 8 and more
First, let me get the Declutter Challenge Day 8 out of the way. This evening I went through a file cabinet in my office, and found benefits handbooks for Jeff's job that have since been replaced with newer versions, plus information on a pension fund for a job I haven't worked at for three years! Off to the trash it all went...
Brayden spent the night last night (in bed and asleep by 8:30 and slept until 8:30 this morning! I tell you, this child is too good to be true!), and we headed off for Ohio's portion of "The World's Longest Yard Sale"...
The route we took is the same route the Mary takes to her house after picking up Brayden at the babysitter's (Kelly). As we drove down the highway and came near his exit, Brayden perked up and said, "Umma, turn right here", thinking we were taking him back to his house. I explained we weren't going to his house right now, and he said, "Mama turns right there every day after Kelly's." Not too bad for a 2 yr old!
Unfortunately, someone neglected to send out the notice to Ohio that all of Route 127 is participating in the World's Longest Yard Sale. We got on to Route 127 in Hamilton, OH and drove southward, saw a total of 6 yard sales, 5 of which we didn't stop, and one we stopped at but didn't buy anything. We got down as far as the Ohio/Kentucky border, and decided "it wasn't meant to be" and headed to Sawyer Point in Cincinnati instead. They have two GREAT playgrounds, one of which is especially nice for toddlers. Brayden is getting quite brave and will now go down slides by himself and loves to swing. Our weather is gorgeous this weekend, with a break in the high humidity and 90 degree temps, so it was the perfect day to spend a few hours at the playground, and then walk along the river.
Of course, I left my camera in the car...sigh. After the playground and a nice walk, we had a picnic in the park, which Brayden also thoroughly enjoyed. As soon as we got in the car, he said, "One more picnic, Umma??" Meaning, of course, "I loved it! Can we do it again SOON?"
Bright and early yesterday morning, I went out on the back deck to drink my coffee (enjoying the quiet before Brayden arrived for the day) and this is what I found under the canopy that shades part of the deck. This is one busy spider because I know that web wasn't there 24 hours before. It makes you wonder if early man looked at a spider web and thought...Hmmm..I can weave like that... and thus, baskets and other woven objects were invented. Today, there was a rainbow of colors in the web. If you click on the photo you can see a larger version and a better idea of the fabulous colors involved.
Tomorrow Jeff and I are having another go at the Yard Sale -- and hopefully we'll actually find a yard sale or two along the way! If I don't get Declutter Challenge photos up on Saturday or Sunday, I'll post them on Monday.
Do you know you can watch the Olympics online?! More than 2000 hours of Olympic coverage that won't be on TV. Just go to http://www.nbcolympics.com to watch.
Oh goodie, a new way to waste more hours of the day!
Brayden spent the night last night (in bed and asleep by 8:30 and slept until 8:30 this morning! I tell you, this child is too good to be true!), and we headed off for Ohio's portion of "The World's Longest Yard Sale"...
The route we took is the same route the Mary takes to her house after picking up Brayden at the babysitter's (Kelly). As we drove down the highway and came near his exit, Brayden perked up and said, "Umma, turn right here", thinking we were taking him back to his house. I explained we weren't going to his house right now, and he said, "Mama turns right there every day after Kelly's." Not too bad for a 2 yr old!
Unfortunately, someone neglected to send out the notice to Ohio that all of Route 127 is participating in the World's Longest Yard Sale. We got on to Route 127 in Hamilton, OH and drove southward, saw a total of 6 yard sales, 5 of which we didn't stop, and one we stopped at but didn't buy anything. We got down as far as the Ohio/Kentucky border, and decided "it wasn't meant to be" and headed to Sawyer Point in Cincinnati instead. They have two GREAT playgrounds, one of which is especially nice for toddlers. Brayden is getting quite brave and will now go down slides by himself and loves to swing. Our weather is gorgeous this weekend, with a break in the high humidity and 90 degree temps, so it was the perfect day to spend a few hours at the playground, and then walk along the river.
Of course, I left my camera in the car...sigh. After the playground and a nice walk, we had a picnic in the park, which Brayden also thoroughly enjoyed. As soon as we got in the car, he said, "One more picnic, Umma??" Meaning, of course, "I loved it! Can we do it again SOON?"
Bright and early yesterday morning, I went out on the back deck to drink my coffee (enjoying the quiet before Brayden arrived for the day) and this is what I found under the canopy that shades part of the deck. This is one busy spider because I know that web wasn't there 24 hours before. It makes you wonder if early man looked at a spider web and thought...Hmmm..I can weave like that... and thus, baskets and other woven objects were invented. Today, there was a rainbow of colors in the web. If you click on the photo you can see a larger version and a better idea of the fabulous colors involved.
Tomorrow Jeff and I are having another go at the Yard Sale -- and hopefully we'll actually find a yard sale or two along the way! If I don't get Declutter Challenge photos up on Saturday or Sunday, I'll post them on Monday.
Do you know you can watch the Olympics online?! More than 2000 hours of Olympic coverage that won't be on TV. Just go to http://www.nbcolympics.com to watch.
Oh goodie, a new way to waste more hours of the day!
Eating dinner out on a frugal budget
When we decide to live our lives in a more frugal fashion, one of the first thing we're advised to do is limit the amount of money we spend on entertainment, including eating out. Paying as much for one dinner as you normally spend for a week's worth of groceries, just doesn't make sense when you're watching your frugal pennies.
But what if you could eat out at one of your favorite local restaurants (or even better, try out a new restaurant) for such a low price that you can't even cook at home for the amount?!
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Aug 7, 2008
DeClutter Challenge - Day 7
A quick post - today is a babysitting day and Brayden is due in any minute. The next few days will be just a quick DeClutter Challenge post, as we are headed out to drive some of the 640 mile "World's Longest Yard Sale" from Ohio to Kentucky and probably into Tennessee! I'm excited! But I'm also thinking this DeClutter Challenge mustn't be offset by bringing more clutter back into the house, so I am going with a list of things I'm looking for (an antique bedroom set being the main one), and I'll try hard to stick to the list.
This morning I decluttered my lingerie drawer of pieces I don't wear or don't like when I do wear them! The photo is just a jumbled mess simply because I don't want to post photos of my undies (or give a thrill to those folks who end up on my web site because they're googling "housewife pics"...sigh sigh sigh.)!
Aug 6, 2008
DeClutter Challenge - Day 6
This morning I went through our coat closet for the Declutter Challenge, and I'm getting rid of two jackets -- one too big, and one too small. If my daughter doesn't want them, I'll drop them off at Goodwill later today on my way to the grocery store. (My theory is that decluttering isn't decluttering unless you actually get the clutter OUT of your house!)
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