It's a Love Hate relationship

Brayden and Joey (the killer cat) have a love-hate relationship going on. Brayden loves Joey. Joey hates everyone. Brayden has a dog at home that will spend hour after hour chasing anything that Brayden throws for him. Brayden thinks Joey should do the same. Joey sometimes accomodates him, but most times just ignores him. Joey often times scratches and bites Brayden, much to Brayden's (and my) chagrin. All Brayden wants to do is cuddle and pet Joey. All Joey wants is to be left alone. Brayden has learned to watch out for "the look" that Joey gives before he's about to bite or scratch, and Brayden has learned to respect the fact that Joey will, indeed, hurt him at times. But that little boy is BRAVE! I have watched this week as he works to overcome his fears of Joey in his ongoing quest to make friends with him. In this video, you'll see Brayden point at the toy he and Joey are playing with and say, "Umma" (his name for me). That means -- "Could you please get this for me because if I reach in there to get it, Joey's going to bite or scratch me."

Reality Shows

I have to admit, I'm a reality show junkie. Give me a night of The Amazing Race, Big Brother, Survivor (though it depends on who is on the cast -- I see Johnny Fairplay is on the new show coming up next month, and I'm still debating whether I'll watch it or not. "Crude" is not my thing.), The Apprentice, American Idol, So You Think You Can Dance, or America's Next Top Model (there's just something about being able to watch beautiful, skinny girls get the heave-ho because they're not pretty enough! LOL). I also enjoy the Gordon Ramsey shows, especially Hell's Kitchen, and shows on HGTV and the Food Network to find their next show host. Project Runway is another favorite of mine. And, being life-long NASCAR fans, DH and I love the "day in the life of..." type shows involving NASCAR drivers. I was thinking about reality shows this morning and wondered when the first reality show broadcast. With a little Google research, I found it was apparently a 1950's show The American Family. I would love to see a rebroadcast of that one! Watching life in the 1950's now would be like watching an alien life form's reality show. I'd love to sit with a 15 or 16 year old and watch that show now! No computers?! No cell phones? Every teenager doesn't receive a car for their 16th birthday? Chores? Moms who don't work? Home-cooked meals around a dinner table every night? No credit cards?!? Oh...my...gawd! If I could watch just one reality show, it would definitely be The Amazing Race. With the exception of a few, the contestants on the race are "real people" who race around the world. The show gives the viewers a wonderful opportunity to view other cultures, to watch people deal with travel difficulties and to view a world through different eyes. The contestants don't seem to be taunted into negative situtations as they are in some shows, and conflict resolution is a recurring theme. If we still had kids at home, this would be a show I'd love to have us watch as a family. There are reality shows I don't watch or have watched and don't continue to watch. Crowned comes to mind right away, as does Dancing with the Stars and too many to list from MTV and VH1. Don't give me stupidity or shows so full of bleeps (or worse, not bleeped when they should be). I'm not going to watch sexcipades or temptation shows. I'm not going to watch characters who are just plain rude or mean (which means I'm debating about whether I'm going to watch the next Survivor show, since Johnny Fairplay will be returning). Instead, I want to watch the Rupert's or the James', who you know are just plain good people in real life. Would I be on a reality show? Not on your life. Although Jeff and I would be great on The Amazing Race! LOL Would my life make for an interesting reality show. Not even a little bit. Well, maybe when Brayden Lee is here for the day, but other than that, it would make for a pretty boring show. But reality shows, for me, are a place to connect, watch, and learn about others in unusual situations, and I thoroughly enjoy them!

Update on the new year

I'm making progress. The "healthy eating" is going well. I do have to use up foods that are in the house, so we're not yet 100% on track, but as I go grocery shopping each week, all that's coming into the house are healthy foods. Ninety percent of the time, I'm substituting mustard for mayo on sandwiches. When I do use mayo, it's Hellman's Canola Oil mayo, which doesn't have the saturated fats that regular mayo does. 100% whole grain wheat breads are all I buy, and I don't by lunchmeats unless I can purchase Boars Head meats (no fillers, no trans fats, far far superior to standard store lunchmeats). For breakfast I've been having either oatmeal (no flavors, just plain) or a 100 calorie English Muffin. On the english muffin I use low fat cottage cheese in place of butter. Lunch has pretty much been a sandwich of sliced turkey or leftover chicken with lettuce, or sliced Boars Head ham with low fat cheese and mustard. We've been eating a lot of homemade soups and chili for dinner. I did make a huge batch of chili last week, using ground sirloin and ground turkey instead of high fat ground beef, LOTS of vegetables in it, and high fiber black beans. We had three meals out of it, and I froze another three, plus gave Mary a serving to take home. Today I'm making ham and lentil soup, but instead of ham hocks, I bought one slice of Boars Head ham, sliced at 1/4 inch thickness, which I will cube up to put in the soup. Mmmmmmm...good stuff! Night time snacking (though honestly, I'm not a big night snacker) has now become an apple or a banana or a tangerine when I do snack. I'm more an afternoon snacker, so I make a cup of coffee and have a Stella Dora breakfast biscuit (90 calories and really appeases my sweet tooth). So, it's going good. Still no exercise because my hip has been bothering me a lot. Brayden and I did get outside and go for a walk on Wednesday (him on his tricycle and me pushing, so maybe that's some extra calories burned in addition to the walking!), but that's been it. I need to call an electrician and have them add some wiring downstairs because my treadmill blows a fuse when I plug it in. But that's no excuse -- I could be outside walking! It would probably actually help my hip! I've emailed one dear friend, Karen, but still need to sit down and write to my sisters Sarah and Gail to meet his month's goal of keeping in touch. I also need to call my friend Tricia. I haven't heard from her in so long and am starting to worry about her a little! (Note to self - do it today!) As for the other items -- I talked to Jeff about getting up to the cabin in Hocking Hills, but still need a date from him when he can take off work. I've added zinc, vitamin C and euchinacea to my regular vitamins to build up my immunity. I've got a new quilt project planned (see my other blog) and hope to start it today. I've decided to go back to work for Home Instead (assisting seniors in their home), which in my mind (and in light of the low pay) combines working part time and volunteering! LOL I've been waiting to get Jeff through his Hell Week (which has actually become Hell Month) and us through our colds before I call them. In the past I was given a specific client to visit one day a week, and I'd like to do that again. So, I'm happy with my progress so far, and I hope to keep moving forward on everything!

Monday & To Do List

I'm making progress, slow but sure, on my New Year's "self-promises". I've slowly been changing our eating habits -- for example, using mustard on sandwiches rather than mayo, using only 100% whole wheat bread, having fruit for a snack at night instead of chips or a sugary treat, eliminating bacon and sausage from our breakfast table. Slow but sure. I'm *finally* feeling better! I actually have some energy this morning and no cough! Oh my! Life is good! I swear, it's the first time since before Thanksgiving that I actually woke up feeling like I could have a productive day! Yay!!! So I'm back to my Monday To Do List, and hope to actually get everything done on the list. TO DO LIST

• Vac downstairs - done
• Dust downstairs - done
• Good general pick-up downstairs - done
• Windex slider, appliances, front windows - done
• Change sheets - done
• Clean cat box - oops, forgot! Tomorrow!
• Freeze chili - done
• Call prosecutor's office - too late :(
• Email Karen, Sarah

Our weather today may hit a record high -- very high 60's (the record is 68)!! I have already turned off the heat and opened a few windows, and will open more once Jeff goes to work. It will be wonderful to air the entire house out -- banish some germs!