Jan 7, 2008

Monday & To Do List

I'm making progress, slow but sure, on my New Year's "self-promises". I've slowly been changing our eating habits -- for example, using mustard on sandwiches rather than mayo, using only 100% whole wheat bread, having fruit for a snack at night instead of chips or a sugary treat, eliminating bacon and sausage from our breakfast table. Slow but sure. I'm *finally* feeling better! I actually have some energy this morning and no cough! Oh my! Life is good! I swear, it's the first time since before Thanksgiving that I actually woke up feeling like I could have a productive day! Yay!!! So I'm back to my Monday To Do List, and hope to actually get everything done on the list. TO DO LIST
  • Vac downstairs - done
  • Dust downstairs - done
  • Good general pick-up downstairs - done
  • Windex slider, appliances, front windows - done
  • Change sheets - done
  • Clean cat box - oops, forgot! Tomorrow!
  • Freeze chili - done
  • Call prosecutor's office - too late :(
  • Email Karen, Sarah

Our weather today may hit a record high -- very high 60's (the record is 68)!! I have already turned off the heat and opened a few windows, and will open more once Jeff goes to work. It will be wonderful to air the entire house out -- banish some germs!

Jan 4, 2008

It's Friday....YESSSSS

Today is the third day in a row of my babysitting for my grandson, Brayden. At the same time, I'm trying to fight off the last of the latest round of bronchitis/cold, get through the post-Christmas stuff (putting decorations away, taking the tree down, writing thank you notes, etc.) and through Jeff's end-of-the-year Hell Weeks where he works anywhere from 15 to 20 hours a day. If you say to Brayden, "It's Friday!" he pumps his little fist in the air and says, "YESSSSS!". Too cute. But also pretty indicative of the way all of us feel about Friday! I'm tired, no doubt about it. Although, as Brayden gets older I'm not as worn out at the end of a day with him as I was when he was more of an infant. But the cold, though winding down, still has me in it's grips and my energy level hasn't survived from that yet. I did add Zinc and Vitamin C supplements to my regular vitamins, and as soon as I started on those, the cold seemed to loose it's grip. Still not gone, but at least that's not all I can think about. I feel so bad for Jeff though. He is about a week behind me with this cold, and he has a cough as bad or worse than mine was, plus he's having to deal with the stress of his end-of-year work, and the long hours. I know he's absolutely exhausted all of the time -- I can see it in his face and eyes. I wish there was something I could do to help him, but other than make homemade soups and make sure he's got a cup of tea when he wants it, there's not much I can do for him. It's been bitterly cold here all week but today it finally got into the high 30's, low 40's, so Brayden and I got out of the house for awhile. We went to the bank and the library. I had a "talk" with him before we went to the library about being quiet and staying with me (vs laughing at the top of his lungs and running through the library the last time we went!), and he behaved beautifully. Can he possibly understand at 20 months?? LOL I think he does. Books I took out today: HAPPINESS IS AN INSIDE JOB: PRACTICING FOR A JOYFUL LIFE by Sylvia Boorstein, Ph.D. I read self-help books like other people read topselling fiction. The title caught my eye, so I took it out. DEATH IN A PAIRIE HOUSE: FRANK LLOYD WIRGHT AND THE TALIESIN MURDERS non-fiction by William Drennan. I just thought this was an appropriate title to read after I'd finished LOVING FRANK (see column in right). I've actually had it on hold for several weeks at the library, so others must have thought the same! RUN by Ann Patchett. I can't wait! If Brayden wasn't here I'd have this half-finished by now! By the author of one of my top-ten-books-of-all-time, BEL CANTO. I have no idea what this one is about, but the author's name is enough to get me excited! With luck, I'll read through this one this weekend. The first of the weekend needs to be spent cleaning house. Between being sick, Christmas and babysitting, my house is dusty and dirty throughout. I hope to get through the upstairs on Saturday and the downstairs on Sunday, catching up on laundry throughout the weekend. The kitchen and bathrooms need a good de-germing with all the cold germs around here, and I'll clorox everything I can wherever I can. It will be a busy weekend, but the weather is supposed to be much warmer -- almost 60 degrees! - so I may even be able to open windows and air everything out for an hour or two in the afternoon. Yippy!

Jan 1, 2008

It's a NEW Year - Welcome, 2008!

Woooo Hoooo! It's a new year! A new day! A new beginning! One of my all time favorite quotes (paraphrased because I've repeated it SO often to my family that I no longer remember what the EXACT quote is!):
"It's a new day, a new beginning. You can't change what happened yesterday, you can only learn from it and move forward." M. Scott Peck, MD
THAT is why I always love the "New Year". It's such a fresh start. Wipe that slate clean and move on! Last year is done and gone. Don't look back. Look forward with great anticipation of what is yet to come.
I am going to make an official New Year's Resolution (unlike all the "Personal Changes in 2008" I listed in a previous post). I am going HOME some time this year. I am going back to visit friends and family in New Hampshire some time this year. I come from the most beautiful small New Hampshire town, Bradford. It's picture postcard New England with tall pine trees (actually officially the state's tallest pine trees!), white-spired church in the center of town, beautiful old colonial homes, a covered bridge... and the warmest, friendliest people in the world.
And every year about this time I get utterly and completely homesick. Well, now and in the Fall, when New Hampshire is quite possibly the most spectacular place on earth in all it's Fall colors. Or maybe it's Spring when the Lilacs first come into bloom... or maybe I'm just home sick year round!
I have written in the past about my life-long friends, Paul and Tricia. There are no better friends than these two, despite the fact we don't stay in close contact and we don't get to visit very often -- and yet, I know they are there and hopefully, they know I'm here for them as well. When we were young, we always swore we'd someday sit in front porch rocking chairs together and share our "golden years" with each other. I've never forgotten that, and never given up on that dream.
So I proclaim, SOME time this year, I am going home. "Home is where the heart is" and my heart has always been and will always be in New Hampshire.